Still Life With Woodpecker. I love this.

Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as it's accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet. That would mean that security is out of the question. The words "make' and "stay" become inappropriate. My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free.

We waste time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love. Wouldn't that be the way to make love stay?